"In order to rise from its own ashes, a phoenix must first burn."
Intro: Welcome to Your Comeback Story
- Divorce might have knocked the wind out of you, but this blog is here to hand you back the mic—and maybe a margarita too.
- You're not just surviving. You’re about to start thriving, financially, emotionally, and mentally.
How to Talk to Your Kids About Divorce
- Keep it age-appropriate and honest
- Remind them it’s not their fault (like, a million times).
- Validate their feelings without overloading them with yours.
What to Say to Family, Friends, and Teachers
- Short and simple: 'We’re going through a transition and working hard to keep things positive.'
- Set boundaries with nosy family members—gracefully if you can, bluntly if you must.
- Coordinate with teachers to keep an eye on emotional or behavioral changes.
Taking Care of You (Because You Matter)
- Rebuild your routine—morning coffee rituals count.
- Make time for therapy, exercise, and a solo Target trip in peace.
- Reconnect with hobbies you shelved (hi there, adult coloring books and wine).
Financial Tips to Help You Stand on Your Own
- Start a budget—yep, the 'B word' can be your BFF.
- Review your credit, open accounts in your name, and track expenses.
- Look into side hustles (like selling that pile of baby clothes or becoming a content creator—wink).
Finding Joy Again: Yes, You Deserve It
- Start saying yes to things that scare you a little: karaoke, new friendships, solo adventures.
- Get yourself something that makes you feel powerful - this cropped hoodie is one of my favorites!
- Practice gratitude—even when the kids are sticky and the fridge is empty.
- Give yourself grace. This isn’t just a new chapter; it’s a plot twist with main character energy.
